I view boundaries as a safe space for kids to grow, learn, and explore. What makes it safe is when they know where the edges of that space are. When there is no defined space or an ever changing, inconsistent space it can be overwhelming and even scary for kids. When things feels out of control we tend to try out two different strategies: 1) Go into lock down and give so many boundaries that there is no space to play and explore. 2) Throw up our hands and let them run wild giving them zero boundaries and stalling their ability to play and explore safely. That middle ground is where we are headed. The following plan includes boundaries that fit your families values and unique life. Let’s work together to create consistent, safe boundaries so your whole family can thrive.
Boundaries are great, but they fall flat and are hard to stick with if they are not guided by a value. This is the part where you get to come together as a parent team and ask yourself what you want your kids to take away as life lessons from the boundaries you set. Though, yes this is a scary big responsibility, it also is an amazing opportunity and we are going to make it simple together. When kids learn a boundary and hear you say, this boundary helps us learn patience, gratitude, honesty, etc, they carry that principle with them as they grow. Though the boundaries they have in life will shift and ultimately someday become their own adult responsibility, the values you teach them will give them a framework to lean on when it is their turn to set and create their own boundaries.
Pricing & Fees
Option A: One time, personalized plan, self-guided - $300
Option B: Two weeks of hands on help, guidance and check-ins, personalized plan - $650
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